Cohabitation Agreements

“December 2020

 

We were referred to Chantal Kur for mediation by a friend who was very satisfied with her services. 

 

We found Chantal to be very professional, fair, supporting and kind. We would refer anyone to her with confidence.

 

Thanks again, Chantal.

 

Kindest regards

Zelda”

To whom it may concern,

To anyone who has experienced the trauma of divorce: it is as much an emotional ordeal as it is a financial one. My divorce was dramatic and with 3 young children within the tornado, almost out of control. I was “reeling”, “trying to keep it together”, as so to speak…

Having started out at mediation approximately two and a halfyears prior, Chantal’s words proved prophetic: “…If you go the litigation route, you will simply land up here later, just far poorer than before…… Read more

Hi Chantal,

 

I’d thought I write out something personal to you to thank you.

 

Thank you for being my strength when I felt so incredibly fragile. Thank you for pointing out the way for me when I just did not know where to turn. But mostly, thank you for nudging and pushing me to the place that I was afraid to go. I will never forget your words to me  – that I can re-create my life. This has re-awakened something powerful in me that I’ve somehow lost over the years.

Thank you for genero… Read more

Chantal Kur assisted me with mediation and I found her to be fair, balanced and productive in her approach towards both myself and the other party during what was an exceptionally stressful time between two people who simply couldn’t see eye to eye. I would recommend her services to anyone wanting to bridge a relationship gap sufficiently to get closure in any situation, not just in a divorce situation. I want to thank you, Chantal, for your invaluable support and assistance with facilitating … Read more

Hi Chantal Thank you so much for mediating our divorce. It has definitely made the process less destructive to our future relationship with each other. 🌻🤗 Thank you Kind Regards Samantha” October 2019

Hi Chantal Hope you well I like to thank you for all your assistance with regards to my divorce. I was present in Court on the 12th January, and now divorced as of that date. I will collect my Letter of Decree on the 21st. Again thank you for all your help. Kind Regards Suran – 19 Jan. 2011

A gentle hand in dark times Chantal Kur conducted my divorce and I can only sing her praises.  Professional, gentle and crystal clear with all steps of the process.  With her gentle guidance my divorce was finalised in 5 weeks!  Thank you always for everything that you did for me. Meralo  – 2016

Dear Chantal, Thank you for mediating between Neville and myself. The two sessions went very well, under the circumstances, and we have managed to resolve the agreement in a friendly manner. Appreciate your time and wonderful calm manner. Kind regards Janine – 2011

Hi Chantal, My ex-husband and I came to you in March to sort out our divorce. Not sure that I ever thanked you for what you did for us and for me, but I do thank you, so thanks! The past 9 months has been interesting and I am in a good space now. As a result of my divorce, and getting back into dating I have met a number of married, separated and divorced men. I must say, that having met all these people in various stages of separation, I have been amazed at how long it all gets dragged ou… Read more

Hello Chantal Thank you for your assistance with getting through my divorce proceedings. When I first made the decision to get divorced, I was overwhelmed with where to begin, what to do and how to have the conversation with my ex-husband about the important matters, children included. You guided me through one of the most difficult processes of my life thus far. I appreciated your step by step approach; and having followed it exactly as you recommended, I have completed this painful process … Read more

Dearest Chantal & Team. My divorce went through yesterday thanks once again for all your kind assistance, I could not have overcome this overwhelmingly daunting experience without you. I will without a doubt recommend your warm services to friends and family. Love Nicola Xxx May 2018

Hi Chantal Thank you very much for your help in facilitating our divorce. I really appreciate your impartiality and you professionalism in handling our divorce process. Thank you Kind Regards Kenneth August 2017

Hi Chantal I trust you are well. Compliments to you. I just want to say thank you so much for everything you have done for me with regards the divorce mediation. It’s been 2 years now and life has been hectic BUT calmed down now. I have met someone and things are going well. Thank you again for being great support and drive for me. Thank you Regards Pinkz – Jan. 2016

Morning Chantal LETTER OF APPRECIATION Not too sure where to start or how to put this into words but I would just like to express my gratitude for your support and assistance with regards to the mediation between myself and Sha. As you know I applied for divorce in 2011 and have changed legal representation twice since then and was still not able to assist with getting our matter finalized. I contacted you in November 2013 and myself and Sha met with you we had a follow up session and t… Read more

If you are serious about putting the needs of your children first, or would like a cost-effective, transparent and amicable ending to your marriage, then I can highly recommend Divorce Mediations. After years of struggling to come to terms with how to separate emotions from reality, Chantal came to our rescue in the form of an unbiased expert who knows the law inside out but is interested in assisting couples with creating a tailor-made solution for their situations. My ex and I were very worrie… Read more

“8 July 2020  Grace under pressure” The emotionally stressed and distressed conditions of a divorce need no additional sources of inflammation, yet contested divorces seem to be the default (pun intended) advice in this area. The saying goes “when elephants fight, the earth hurts” . Similarly, the collateral damage inflicted by ego inspired attorneys and their clients can have long lasting effects. The contrast to litigation is mediation, which is not a panacea for all conflicts. However, … Read more

1 November 2018 High Chantal , My divorce went through today. The judge today said that he has never seen such a perfect and child centered parenting plan in all he’s years.  Thank you for that. 

“November 2019

Chantal made the painful process of Divorce a lot more bearable, she has the ability to calm a potentially volatile situation making the process of Divorce quick, amicable and easy.”

Thabo Moilwa”

Chantal I would like to thank you for setting up our settlement agreement. During this process your calm and caring manner have really assisted us in closing a sad chapter in our lives, and with your knowledge and guidance you alleviated much of the stress of getting divorced. I would sincerely recommend you and your mediation capabilities to any couple that have reached the end of matrimonial bliss. It was nice to be treated as a human and not just another failed case. Thanking You Sin… Read more

Hi Chantal, I got my divorce decree today. Thanks so much for your patience and making that go away so quickly. I am very grateful and happy about the way things turn out and I enjoyed meeting with you. Keep up the good work cause you are the best! May God bless you more, K. Tsie – Nov. 2013

Hi Chantal I just want to thank you for helping with the divorce, thank you for your kindness and generosity. I really appreciate it. May God bless you in so many ways. Thank you for everything. May you have a blessed day. Greetings Suzi van Reenen – 29 Sep. 2011

I don’t actually know how to put the experience I have had with Chantal Kur and her company Divorce Mediations into words that truly describe the professionalism and service she delivers with such ease and absolute grace. No divorce is pleasant but she made us feel so comfortable and explained everything in such detail that we walked out of her office knowing we have made the right decision for our beautiful daughter. At no stage do you feel rushed, unsure or insecure about anything – sh… Read more

Dear Chantal,

I am extremely happy with the service that was offered by your company during the challenging times preceding my divorce. The mediation process was quick and efficient and  it took a lot of the hard ace away from me.  I felt respected and was always handled professionally at all times, even when there were difficulties with coming to agreement with my ex husband. The mediator handled each crises effectively and very professionally. Any queries was resolved very quickly and I was… Read more

Hi Chantal Thank you for mediating my divorce. I found that divorce mediation is not only the cheaper option, when getting a divorce, but also quick and easy. You explained the whole mediation process so nicely to us at our first appointment. Every session thereafter you handled with empathy, professionalism and detail. I would recommend Mediation to anyone as a first option, when getting divorced. Ilne Muller (soon to be Nienaber) – 13 Nov. 2009

Exellent Service Recieved on 2 Occasions I had dealings with Chantal Kurr on 2 Occasions. Firstly Divorce Mediation in May 2014 and then a Settlement Dispute in November 2015. On both occasions all parties involved left the table happy and satisfied for one reason… due to Chantal’s Calm Professional and Spiritual and Definitely NON Bi-as approach. Thank You Chantal Rudi L – 2016

To whom it may concern, I wish to recommend Chantal Kur, She has an amazing talent of being able to handle the most difficult circumstances with grace and compassion. I know from experience that she truly cares for the people she is mediating with. She will go the extra mile whenever she can and has on countless occasions taken a knock financial and emotionally just so that her clients can receive the care and hours that it takes to sort out any problems they may have. If you put your lives i… Read more

Dear Chantal I am so happy that I was eventually able to persuade my husband that we mediate rather than litigate! The process with you was by far more beneficial to both of us in that we were able to communicate with civility without resorting to the bickering and mental bashing that would have happened without you. The whole process is still very painful for me and although the divorce is still awaiting a court date, I find that I am able to deal with the situation better having mediated th… Read more

Dear Chantal Thank you so much for mediating my divorce, if it wasn’t for you…i would still be fighting for what i want. Thanks to you for assisting me in a way i never thought possible. Lawyers doing divorces are just financially driven…you are driven to help others. Warm Regards, Aricshia – Feb. 2014

“Dear Chantal,

 

I am extremely happy with the service that was offered by your company during the challenging times preceding my divorce. The mediation process was quick and efficient and  it took a lot of the hard ace away from me.  I felt respected and was always handled professionally at all times, even when there were difficulties with coming to agreement with my ex husband. The mediator handled each crises effectively and very professionally. Any queries was resolved very quickly and… Read more

Hi Chantal I just wanted to thank you for treating our matter with such care and swift efficiency. Your care and guidance will always be revered Regards Taiya April 2017

Dear Chantal, Thank you for your assistance in previously reaching a settlement. I thank God for this process and service you offer. However I pray to God that less and less couples do not have to get to this level (I hope you hear my heart).I do not wish any couple to separate. Your service has however made the process, respectable and manageable. Again I thank you. Regards, Tshepo M – Nov 2015

Dear Chantal, Just wanted to let you know that everything went very smoothly in court today, and the judge ordered the decree of divorce with no hesitation. He seemed to be suitably impressed with the paperwork, which was all in order, unlike the advocates who were representing other clients before my case was called up. I was so impressed that he did not find fault in our settlement agreement that you drew up. I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for being an outstanding med… Read more

Chantal is a very pleasant and friendly person. She immediately laid down the rules of mediation and made it very clear that there is no point in fighting and arguing as we have kids and will most likely be joined at the hip for years to come. As our kids are the most important aspect of our lives, we have decided to be amicable about our divorce. Chantal has removed the pain and hassle factor by streamlining a parenting plan, which will suit all concerned. We have had two mediation sessions … Read more

Selfless beyond the call of duty Divorce can be as bad as death, disability and destitution. One is never prepared for the extreme emotional turmoil and triggers. But through the tumult, if one feels supported and heard and seen, one can find resolve.  Chantal Kur at Divorce Mediations is just that support. She sees things as they are, she  keeps things  real. She gIves of herself and her gifts in mediation far beyond the cash value that she charges.  And that is her greatest asset.  … Read more

Dear Chantal, I would like to thank you for the professional, peaceful manner in which you assisted me with my divorce. Mediation is most certainly the less stressful option to pursue with a situation that is always emotional and potentially volatile. With your steady hand and fair approach, we got through our agreement negotiations with only the minimum of stress. In addition, you might like to know that I followed your clear, concise instructions regarding the filing of paperwork at the cou… Read more

Chantal, Thank you so much for your professionalism and caring spirit when you assisted with doing my divorce settlement. Because of you, I was born again?you gave me a second chance to rebuild my life. May God richly bless you. Its amazing how through such a delicate process, you gave me a chance to be born yet again? You gave birth to me. Zaba – 3 Apr. 2013

Chantal handled our divorce mediation both professionally and without bias, and kept both parties advised of the process throughout. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking mediation Jan M – August 2014

Dear Chantal Thank you for your patience and assistance in settling my divorce. I appreciate your kind hearted and professional approach. Its very seldom you meet people whom are good at and suited for what they do. Best regards Andrew – 15 Sep. 2010

Afternoon Chantal Herewith this mail please find my gratitude and thanks for all your assistance to make this process better than what it was going to be… I am grateful for your kindness, assistance and professionalization during our sessions. Warm regards, WH February 2019